36. You Don’t Attract What You Want—You Attract What You Are

Hey love!

Welcome to this powerful episode where I’m sharing a transmission that originally aired inside Spirit Tribe during our theme for the month: Magnetic May.

In this session, I opened up about what magnetism really is—not the curated, filtered version we see on social media, but the embodied, soul-aligned, heart-led energy that naturally draws in everything that is meant for you.

I talk about:

• Why magnetism isn’t something you do—it’s something you become
• How to stop chasing and start attracting from a place of alignment
• The energetics behind “trying too hard” and how it actually repels what you desire
• Why nervous system regulation is foundational to true magnetism
• The role of authenticity, vulnerability, and embodiment in becoming magnetic
• The sacred power of surrender and allowing yourself to be seen

You’ll hear me speak candidly about my own journey with this, including moments I was gripping too tightly or forcing outcomes—and what shifted when I dropped back into trust, presence, and truth.

This episode is a loving call to stop hustling for your worth and start being the energy that effortlessly attracts your next level. ✨

If this speaks to you, I invite you to tune in with your journal, your breath, and your open heart. And if you want to deepen this work, come join us inside MOKSHA happening June 25 & 26th! A free 2-day live embodiment series to liberate your most authentic expression (hellllloooo being magnetic AF!) Save your seat here.

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